He's being brutally honest about himself. No excuses. No justifications. Nor is there any willingness to accept judgement from anyone else over his choices. He services men and women sexually in exchange for money and things he needs. He has the ability to leave with nothing if things grow too dangerous for him. And he always makes sure he has enough cash on hand to be able to do so.
He finds ways around any limitations...like getting a Medicare Card for the Canadian healthcare system. And an ID. He knows what he can do and what he can't to also make money legally. He does not accept society's hypocrisy and refuses to lie, though he will sometimes only reveal as much truth as necessary to handle a situation, if need be.
I'm making notes through his story and am to the point of his second year as assistant ski instructor at a resort outside of Whistler, north of Vancouver. It's here he is turned onto Hitchcock's Vertigo by a video store clerk who tells him it doesn't make a bit of sense but is lovely to look at...and the movie tears him apart.
Because it reflects too much in his life.
The film made perfect sense...as a hideous nightmare a man dreams just before he dies. He thinks of how he escaped his death by allowing the policeman at the beginning to die but then builds a story in his mind that draws him back in steps and stages to try and rewrite what happened.
He falls into a dream world where, in an attempt to change the past he kills two innocent women...Madeline and Judy. And do not tell me they were the same person. That was but his mind justifying his obsession with Madeline, a woman of true beauty and meaning, a thing of perfection. Whom he then formed, again, from Judy, who was nothing but clay to be used as the basis for a second attempt at revision.
Both were caught in this man's nightmare. Both were used and tossed aside like they were nothing. Nothing. With him even saying, when Judy fights against his manipulation, "It can't matter to you."
Can't matter to you? That I am destroying your sense of self? That I deny you as you are and will only accept you as what you are not? Then once she has done as he wills, he carries her to the place where she will die.
He had fought, in his own mind, fought to free himself from guilt and his fate only to find himself caught deeper in it as it destroys others, as well. Leaving him on the precipice of his own death.
I bawled at the end. Like a child who has just realized all around him are monsters, not protective angels. Like a man who has just realized his life is nothing to anyone.
Yes, these were thoughts I'd already visited many times, but now I could see that I sensed it only on an intellectual level. The crushing truth of what they meant was crystalized in this movie in my heart and soul, and I could see myself in both women. Used. Manipulated. Destroyed.
I don't know if this makes a damn bit of sense, but it definitely changes Adam's entire world.